Be clear, there is definitely more than three ANNOYING things that a lady can do on the phone to make you say “Uh Uh”. Check out my list of the three things women do that makes me say “Uh Uh”.
Number one:
“She’s quick to offer random names of guys who live in your area“
If during the first phone conversation you have with her, her response is something like “oh, do you know James??? do you know Damien??? he lives in your area too” that is a straight “UH UH”. Fam, you cannot be talking with a lady who’s initial reaction is to affiliate your location with that of another random guy.
How do you deal with this?
Tell her you live somewhere else. If she becomes a serious figure in your life tell her you moved.
Number two:
“The main jist of the conversation always flips back to the man she feels hard done by“
Bruh, you cannot be talking to a lady and you’re there playing Doctor Phil on the phone. That’s not the wave @ all. If she starts to get into the common grove of talking about her ex’s and basically male bashing, plus wasting your phone credit…tell her “I don’t mean to interrupt, but I don’t really feel comfortable hearing about this. No offence…but I’m really am not interested in what he did and why“
How do you deal with this?
Let her do that talk on her own credit and just sit on the fence with no opinions in your responses.
Number three:
“Compares herself to the worst to make herself look better“
Its such a bore when the lady is on the other end of the phone gas bagging about other women..like her government name is “Oprah Beyonce Jada Angelou”
In the words of J Cole “Nobody’s Perfect“. I do not need to know about the girls who do XYZ…who are bitching…who sleep around…who rave every weekend. That’s all long. Let’s talk about you, not them.
How do you deal with this?
Lock off the phone.
#Rutalk @MrAmaru
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