In relationships, there are the three vital ‘e’s I have identified with: Effort, Emotion and Energy! Why would anyone want to invest these tiresome feelings into something with no return? It almost makes you wish relationships came with an expiry date so you could decide before you venture in, whether it’s worth the time, but because there is not, we venture.
Somewhere along the lines within a ‘relationship’ that is becoming more and more unsuccessful, the three e’s become blurred, malfunctions occur and issues begin to remain overlooked. These become habitual traits in which we usually make excuses for. Hence creating, ‘The Situation’.
I believe that hoarding is one of the most torturous forms of self abuse. Whether it be clothes that don’t fit, shoes you don’t wear, or more detrimental, friends that are no good, or relationships that do not work, hoarding is what holds us back from experiencing new things and continuing our journey with as little baggage possible. But this act is what every person in the world does conscious or subconsciously at some point throughout life, and it is understandable why.
Written By Billi John