By Billi John
Personally I feel there are five top tell tale signs, your relationship is taking a turn for the worse.
1. COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN
There is minimal effort to communicate or share stories, feelings, time. Whether it is the long conversations at night that come to a halt or the texts start filtering or fade. Even just sharing each other’s space but in separate worlds, not the only in the room, but very much alone…
This is a situation.
2. LACK OF CONNECTION
Not only a sexual connection, although in a case of a sexual relationship, this is highly important. How can you feel someone… If you are not feeling someone…? But also more importantly a mental connection. If a difference in morals or opinions becomes more noticeable than before, someone’s perspective has changed or is becoming less disguised. When you ‘Just don’t get’ someone anymore or you question when you ever did…
This is a situation.
3. LOSS OF AFFECTION
The desire to steal as many kisses, cuddles, looks of intensity, air sharing spaces or anything to the sharing nature starts to fizzle or becomes one dimensional. It is no longer important because the comfort zone has set in, or the animosity has begun to arise..
This is a situation.
4. CONSTANT NEED FOR SPACE
If being alone is within your nature naturally in a relationship a balance needs to be found. However if the balance becomes more and more compromised, and the want to spend time is not mutual, this is an issue. Understandably at times everybody needs to be allowed to just be. Be in your own company, be able to share your own space, be free to be selfish, content, and selective with your affections however if this becomes more times than none, and a major highlight or point of conversation/ argument…
This is a situation.
5. EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS BECOME JUSTIFIED
Let’s not try to deny, these feel good. Whether it is a long distance cyber dependency, or a shoulder to cry on close to home, emotional affairs are the biggest sign your situation should not even still be in existence. By developing a connection with someone else you obviously weaken the connection with your situation sharer. Comparisons between parties become regular and the constant need for more grows with every communication. As much as it is compensation for what is lacking in a relationship, it is no justification as to why the energy has been shifted…
This is a situation.
Next editorial will discuss…”the three vital E’s in a relationship“.
Make sure you add us on Facebook, Twitter to stay connected and don’t miss it.
No related posts.
