He Wants To Be In A Relationship, Just Not With You!

February 22, 2011 1 Comment »

Men are always LOOKING for a relationship

The key word is “looking.”. Despite the claims to the contrary, men are always looking for a serious relationship. The problem is, we can’t tell women we’re looking for a serious relationship because in their conceit they will naturally assume we’re looking for a serious relationship with them specifically, while this is only sometimes the case.

Please note I said men, not boys. Boys are looking to have relations with as many women as possible until the end of time. Men are willing to have relations with as many women as possible but are simultaneously keeping an eye out for a good woman they want to be with exclusively. As I mentioned earlier, we can’t tell women this so we keep it to ourselves. What men do is:

They meet a woman they might have some potential interest in and they promptly warn her, “I’m not looking for anything serious.” Even though he is. This is code for, I’ve just put you on the possible girlfriend/wife plan but I’m going to wait and see how you act first.

Instead, without even knowing it, this man is observing you and judging by your actions he will determine which category he’s going to file you under: jumpoff, side chick, main chick, only chick, or worst case scenario, platonic friend.

There are circumstances when a man really isn’t feeling you and he says “I’m not looking for anything serious” but this means 1) he’s not attracted to you or 2) he’s trying to see how far he can get with you without getting into a relationship with you!!!!!!!!!!

Part two 2mrw

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One Comment

  1. Billi Bee 26 April 2011 at 18:16 - Reply

    Men are more complex than women.. I say this because as much as men say ‘its hard to understand her’ women are very… more time overly expressive with their feelings in some way or form.. Men on the otherhand are gaurded and have codes they live by- i.e- ‘im not looking for anything serious’, ‘I like you but im not ready’… JUST BE REAL GOD DAMMIT Lol

    Love for my men though- this is no attack Lol I totally can identify witrh the fact women are more emotional whilst men are more physical.. normally hardly ever by choice or control! I aint mad at cha fella’s :)

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